Yes, it is that time again. No matter how I prepare myself, the first week of August always sneaks up on me! My boys sleepily padded in to the kitchen on Monday, partially excited about going back to school, but mostly annoyed that the summer had gone by so quickly. As they finished their breakfast, I think, just maybe, they had developed a bit more excitement. There were new folders and pencils, graphing calculators and highlighters all tucked neatly into the bazillion pockets inside the backpacks. My "summer hair" boys even ran a comb through their hair that morning and posed for a quick snapshot. I do it every year, and even though they are tired, they stand proud and tall, mostly because this is proof in the pudding that they really did grow another handful of inches in a year!
Although I enjoyed the solitude, I missed them. It also reminded me that there are only a few years left of this before they experience dorm life and all college has to offer. Over the summer, I saw lists of potential colleges sitting in my older son's room and my heart skipped a beat. Wait! It's not time! It's too soon! As excited as I am for them and all that they will learn, there is a bit of sadness that creeps into my thoughts. For now, though we will enjoy all the time we have. Football games and cross country meets, weekend movies and family get-togethers, annual parties in the neighborhood and just a few more cookouts before the weather changes. Someday when the boys are older, I hope they can look back and remember all the fun we had.
For all my teacher friends, I hope you have an amazing year. Our children have been so blessed with outstanding teachers. Without the constant dedication and mutual support of teachers, I don't know where I'd be. My hat is off to all of you!!!
And for us moms, now that the initial back to school shopping is done, maybe we can sit back and relax a bit. Each year, I prep ahead of time for the first week of school, knowing that it will be hectic. Mornings will be chaotic, trying to fit everything into the backpacks, responding to the "does this go together?" and "have you seen my flash drive?" questions. And some evenings are even more mind boggling - between after school practices, scouts and youth groups, plus homework, we lose track of time very easily. Dinner is sometimes a serious afterthought and feeding teenage boys is no small feat. Back to Pinterest I headed, for some additional recipes for make ahead meals.
Using a crockpot for make-ahead meals is the absolute best! The week before school started I used one day for shopping and prep, and then one afternoon for putting everything together. Now, we have 16 meals completed. Simply taking out the meal the night before for defrosting, and then the next morning putting it in the crockpot certainly is easier than putting together a dinner every night AND so much healthier than eating take-out! My favorite meal list is from Who Needs a Cape? Pop on over to her site for some great ideas!
Finally, there's always the big question of "what's for lunch?" My boys have always taken a lunch to school. The lunches aren't that spectacular and the lines are incredibly long. With their lunch breaks being so short to begin with, they would have to inhale their food if they had to stand in a long line just to get a lunch. Yet, this presents another challenge - what to pack?
Have I mentioned how much I love Pinterest?? Scores and scores of ideas for everything under the sun!!! Admittedly, I do believe I have a slight addiction to the site though. When you have to start reorganizing your boards and pins because there are so many of them, you realize that maybe, just maybe you are spending a lot of time "pinning." But, lo and behold, they have lunch ideas. Lots of them! Well worth a peek.... here are a couple of my favorites.
So, as we see our kiddos off to school this year, after the whirlwind of purchases and planning, take a moment just to share a quiet moment with them. Sit and talk, play a card game, share a story - soon they will be grown and taking on the world on their own. As much as we plan for that day, there are few of us who will honestly say we don't feel a bit of sadness, too. Hug them just a little longer today, if they'll let you!!
Until next time, Think Happy Thoughts!